I was sitting with my favorite women talking about all the things we want to do. It was so easy to think of all things we dream of doing, but never make the time or find someone to do them with. Why wait for someone else to take you on your dream date? Seize the opportunity to make time for YOU! In need of some inspiration? Here are 25 of our favorite solo date ideas.
- Get outdoors. Breathe in some fresh air, take some time to self-reflect, and go on a hike!
- Spa it up. Hitting the spa can be super expensive, but hitting your local drugstore isn’t! Grab a face mask and a cucumber and have your own DIY spa night.
- Dive into a book. Cuddle up with that book you’ve been meaning to finish - maybe even at an outdoor cafe or park?
- Make yourself a three-course meal. You’ll learn something new, and it’ll be tasty. Don’t forget to set the table.
- Get your culture on and go to a museum. Whatever city you’re in, check to see if your local cultural destinations have any discount days.
- Save our libraries. Go to your local library, sign up for a card, find your guilty pleasure book, and start reading knowing that you’re saving one of the best parts of our cities.
- Get your wine on at TJ. Fun fact: every Trader Joe’s has a sommelier on staff. Hit your local TJ’s for a lesson on wine.
- Bloom it up. Find a local flower shop or farmer’s market and make an arrangement for your room.
- Dine out. Pick a new fancy restaurant and treat yourself to a table for one or sit at the bar and get to know your bartender.
- Take a class. We’re talking cooking, painting, workout... whatever delights you. Online classes count, but IRL classes get bonus points!
- Explore a new neighborhood. Be a tourist in your own city and go exploring.
- Dance party. Enough said.
- Get your cuddle on. Visit your local animal shelter and spend time with some animals who need loving.
- Go on a bike ride. Many cities now have bikes you can rent!
- See the sea. If you have access, go paddle boarding, kayaking, surfing or even walking by the beach because the ocean is healing.
- Take a joy ride. Take a long drive and listen to your favorite album all the way through on full blast.
- Rock out. Find a concert at a venue you haven’t been to before and rock out.
- Do a craft There are tons of starter kits (like embroidery) for you to pick up a new skill, or keep it simple and pick up an adult coloring book and some markers.
- Take a staycation. Find a local hotel, sleep in and order room service.
- Do some grooming. A manicure, pedicure, or blowout session never disappoint.
- Give a little. We can gain a lot of joy helping others. Choose a nonprofit with a mission you’re passionate about and volunteer.
- Make some time for DIY sexy time. Set the mood with candles, music and perhaps your favorite toy.
- Do some planting. Whether you make a succulent terrarium for your coffee table or get in the dirt and plant some vegetables, spending time with earth is super grounding.
- Go shopping. Treat yourself to a scene out of Pretty Woman and take yourself shopping somewhere chic. Window shopping counts!
- Fill in the blank. Did we miss something you’ve always wanted to do, but didn’t have someone to do it with? Do it solo, because choosing yourself means not waiting for anyone to fulfill your dreams.
Remember: the connection you have with yourself is the foundation for every relationship in your life. Treat yourself to a solo date that sets the tone for everything!