Article on Design Your Dream Stack


Design Your Dream Stack

When I first created the Self Love Pinky Ring in 2016, there was only one option: the White Sapphire Self Love Pinky Ring in a prong setting. And while I'm still absolutely enamored with our original, iconic self love reminder, I love seeing how our sisterhood is taking advantage of the different styles, stones and even rings (hello ME Ring!) to create their dream stacks. Here are some popular pairings for you to consider as you design your dream stack: The ME Trinity  The holy trinity of ME Rings, this stack is achieved by combining the ME Ring in three metals:...

Article on The One Who Took Audacious Care of Herself


The One Who Took Audacious Care of Herself

”2020 has been a year of epitomes for me. I turned 48. I’ve raised 3 children ages 26, 24 & 20 largely on my own & have 2 grandchildren that make my day everyday. I’ve had 12 trips to various places in the middle of the year of Covid.🔻I stopped choosing people that didn’t choose me. Stopped giving people’s opinions weight who aren’t contributing anything but hot air & like Cardi B said you know those who popped the most ish are the people whose ish is not together.🔻Your opinion of me is none of my business.🔻I’m taking audacious care of...

Article on Find your ME


Find your ME

I found my ME in an A Minor chord waiting to be played on my piano  I found my ME tucked away on the top shelf of my library in a book by Toni Morrison filled with the most decadent prose  I found my ME in ticket stubs from an outdoor concert where everyone knew the words and was singing along  I found my ME in a picture of cobbled streets of a far away city only explored by the most curious travelers  I found my ME in a faded journal filled with feelings felt by a girl who felt everything ...

Article on Self-Care September


Self-Care September "Find Your ME" 30-Day Challenge

Welcome to our four-week Self-Care September “Find Your ME” 30-Day Challenge & Giveaway, where we are making a daily commitment to discovering and honoring your ME - your true, complete self. Each week will focus on a theme, and we will embody that theme through daily movement meditations, mindfulness exercises and more all led by DeenaOH of MindBodyGrace. If you're not familiar with Alexander technique teacher Deena Odelle Hyatt, make sure to read our interview with her.  Through this four-week challenge, we will explore these questions:Who is The Whole and True ME? Where is my center? How do I find...

Article on The One Who Made the Best Decision


The One Who Made the Best Decision

“I’ve always LOVED jewelry and I am in the very beginning stages of a divorce. I haven’t worn my engagement/wedding rings in over 6 months...I tried for the longest to convince myself they did not make me who I am as a grown woman and mother. After 6 months I finally decided to replace that with the Self Love Pinky Ring so that it can be my daily reminder that ME and my son are it. And if I prioritize myself a little more, then my son truly can get the best parts of me all to himself.🔻I tried to...

Article on Friday Feature: DeenaOH Body Mindfulness & Dynamic Posture Specialist

Friday Feature

Friday Feature: DeenaOH Body Mindfulness & Dynamic Posture Specialist

The Fred and Far Friday Feature celebrates powerful women from our sisterhood who share their magic with the world in unique and inspiring ways. This week, I am proud to share Deena Odelle Hyatt, also known as DeenaOH, a Body Mindfulness & Dynamic Posture Specialist. I've had the tremendous gift of working with her personally to shift my relationship with my body and mind, and now I'm grateful to share her with you. In addition to this interview, Deena and I will be collaborating on a  Self Care September Challenge that will give you the opportunity to work with Deena for four weeks, with an emphasis on Awareness,...

Article on A Pinky Promise to Support Social Justice


A Pinky Promise to Support Social Justice

2020, so far, has been a year of drastic change. Some good, but a lot scary, different, and uncertain. Compounding the global Coronavirus pandemic have been nearly three months of protests surrounding the unjust deaths of George Floyd and Breonna Taylor, and countless others, from police brutality and systemic racism. The change being asked for is coming, sometimes in drips, sometimes in waves. But the fight is difficult, especially for Black women and girls who are often cast in the role of savior, even though all of us should be doing our part to achieve the transformative change our country...

Article on The Alexandrite Self Love Pinky Ring


The One Who Is Ever Changing

"My ring, ever-changing in its colors, shining so brightly one moment then dark and rich the next, is my reminder that change is beautiful and how deeply I feel is not a flaw but a gift. Because if I can know such levels of sadness over the years, imagine the extraordinary levels of joy I can reach. My ring is my reminder."

Article on Shalini's Pinky Promise to Herself

Friday Feature

Shalini's Pinky Promise to Herself

Two words. Eight letters. Say them and you’re all yours.  Self Love.  Looking back at the twenty-five years that I have been around, it amazes me to think that it took me so long to embrace this concept. Self love is complex, but it is also very simple. It’s a lot of effort that you have to put in to become the best version of yourself, but it is also defined by the small moments that make you who you are. Overall, I like to think of self love as a balancing act between those big formative steps and the...

Article on Becoming the Self Love Philosopher - Melody Godfred on Single Serving Podcast


Becoming the Self Love Philosopher - Melody Godfred on Single Serving Podcast

I'm proud to share a transcription of my conversation with Shani Silver, founder of Single Serving Podcast, a podcast (and community!) dedicated to change the narrative around being single (spoiler alert: it's not a bad thing after all). In it, I share about my journey from litigation attorney (Shani and I met in law school!) to self love philosopher. I hope you enjoy this chat as much as I enjoyed having it. The link to the podcast episode is available at the end of this post. Shani Silver: Welcome to A Single Serving Podcast. This is where we change the discussion around...

Article on The MINE Necklace Makes A Bold Statement About Belonging


The MINE Necklace Makes A Bold Statement About Belonging

I'm so proud to launch my latest product, the MINE necklace. The MINE necklace makes a bold statement to the world about belonging.  What does it mean to belong? It is both a matter of possession, and inclusion. We spend much of our lives seeking to belong- to a person, to a group. And sometimes in that pursuit, we relinquish our autonomy, our worth, our very wholeness with ourselves. This statement necklace tells the world, I am MINE. Is there a more powerful statement to be made? When you wear it, you take possession of yourself, and responsibility for yourself....

Article on Why Ruby is the Ultimate Self Love Gem


Why Ruby is the Ultimate Self Love Gem

Rubies are the ultimate self love gem, and our ruby Self Love Pinky Ring is the only ruby you’ll ever need (especially if you’re a July babe and ruby is your birthstone!). Not only will it improve your relationship with yourself, but it has a number of other associated benefits, which you can find listed below: 1. Enhanced Intimate Relationships Need to spice up your relationships? Ruby is known for being an epitome of undying love, evoking feelings of love, warmth, and compassion. Even more, ruby will help you to resolve conflicts and fix underlying problems with others.   2. More...