After all my complaining about just how hard 2017 has been, it should come as no surprise then, that this year’s holiday gift guide (aka my personal Christmas wish list) is all about self-care. For the ladies in your life that are overdue on that self-loving good stuff, every gift on this list is the kind that gives back — in more ways than one. Because it's no secret that "you can't pour from an empty cup," the specially curated gifts on this list were chosen to help the leading ladies in your life fill up their cups. Therefore, the more you give, the more you get. The holiday season is kind of magical like that, isn't it?

Treat those you love to just what they need this festive season with this Holiday Gift Guide That Keeps on Giving.

Spoiler Alert: Whether you’re adopting the “one-for-you-one-for-me” policy or not, there’s something extra special on this list for you, too!

FOR THE LADIES LACKING TIME…

While not always easy to come by, solo time is absolutely vital to self-care. When you gift this totally gorgeous and totally functional planner to the leading lady in your life, you’re not just giving her an exceptionally useful organizational tool, you are giving her time. Encourage your giftee to try to schedule in at least one hour to herself a week.

FOR THE FRIEND WHO’S ALWAYS TIRED…

Since you can’t exactly grant your BFF the vacation time she desperately needs, this is the next best thing. Driftaway Coffee doesn’t just taste dreamy (trust me, I’ve tried it), but this hip coffee co. out of Brooklyn offers personalized coffee subscriptions, ships within 6 hours of roasting, and every bag sold contributes directly to sustainable livelihoods for farmers. How’s that for a gift that keeps on giving?

FOR THE BABE WHO’S BEEN FEELING A LITTLE DULL LATELY...

Because every girl deserves to own a razor that actually works. Say goodbye to buying men’s throwaway razors in bulk, or borrowing your bf’s because who knows where that’s been?... This razor was designed by and for women. “This is for curves and angles. This is for the girls who want to show up for their lives-minus the razor burn.“

FOR THE GAL WHO CAN’T QUIET HER MIND…

This is a gift for the girls who are constantly trying to do two things at once, the ladies juggling a mental to-do list that’s far too long, and the women who need a little natural help getting into the zone. Vitruvi’s FOCUS mist smells sensational and is specially designed to trigger parts of the brain that help with focus and decision making.

FOR THE BEAUTY LOOKING TO BREAK FREE…

Tori Swanson is an artist from Vancouver, BC, whose intention is to emancipate women from their fears so that they can live a life of full expression. “Too often we get hung up about what we look like from the exterior when we all look the same — we're just different variations.” Choose a Naked Horoscope Print for the beauty in your life that needs to be reminded of her wholeness.

FOR THE GIRL WHO JUST NEEDS TO CHILL…

This three-pack of bath salts offers three unique bathing experiences and makes the perfect gift for the girl who could use a little unwinding. Made of only 100% natural ingredients, this present will transform the receiver's self-care Sunday rituals and turn any tub into a luxurious oasis.

FOR THE LADIES FEELING LOST…

This book is so good I read it twice in a matter of two weeks, during a time when I was feeling exceptionally lost. Offering sage, no BS, no fluff, downright honest, emotionally vulnerable advice — Cheryl Strayed is bound to have the words you need to read when you need to read them. Do every lady on your shopping list a favor and gift them this read.

FOR YOURSELF…

Make a commitment to yourself this Christmas and seal the deal with a pinky promise. Fred+Far’s Self Love Pinky Rings are not only the perfect way to treat yourself to a little bling this holiday season, but wearing the symbol of the Divine Feminine will act as a powerful reminder of self-love, all year long.